Author: Shelby Benavidez
Contributing Paralegal: Samantha Dean, paralegal team lead
In todayโs competitive legal marketplace, the role of the paralegal has become a critical factor in a firmโs overall efficiency, client satisfaction, and profitability. The definition of a โgoodโ paralegal now extends far beyond administrative precision โ these professionals are client advocates, strategic communicators, and collaborative partners who help drive case outcomes and firm performance.
To explore what truly defines excellence in this evolving role, Samantha Dean, a paralegal team lead at Daniel Stark Injury Lawyers, shares her perspective. She reveals that while technical skill and organization remain essential, itโs often the intangibles, such as curiosity, empathy, humor, and adaptability, that elevate a paralegal from good to indispensable.
The Core of a Good Paralegal Goes Beyond Organization
Most hiring managers and mentors would agree that a good paralegal will have basic qualities such as attention to detail, strong organization, and a genuine desire to help others. However, interpersonal skills are often what separate top performers from the rest.
โThere are obvious traits that every paralegal needs to have โ detail-oriented, organized, and has a heart to want to help people,โ Dean explained. โBut, more abstractly, somebody with a good sense of humor will thrive in this role.โ
In a profession that requires balancing client care, communication, and constant multitasking, that โsense of humorโ is a stress management skill and a relational asset.
โWe deal with a lot of different characters,โ Dean said. โBeing able to manage all those conversations and having good common sense when youโre talking to people โ that makes a big difference.โ
Soft skills drive sustainability. Paralegals who can remain composed, professional, and even light-hearted under pressure bring stability and morale to the team. Technical skills may get you noticed, but emotional intelligence, adaptability, and resilience are what build longevity in this profession.
What Sets Top Paralegals Apart: Critical Thinking and Curiosity
In high-performing law firms, the paralegals who make the biggest impact are rarely just the most efficient โ theyโre the most agile thinkers. Those who combine critical thinking, adaptability, and curiosity bring measurable value to their teams and clients.
Paralegals who can effectively compartmentalize various tasks while remaining quick on their feet directly translate into efficiency and client trust. Cases rarely follow a predictable path, and high-performing paralegals are often the ones finding creative solutions in unfamiliar territory.
โSometimes you run into situations that arenโt standard or textbook,โ Dean noted. โBeing quick on your feet, thinking outside of the box, and utilizing your skills to navigate those situations are what set you apart.โ
In other words, great paralegals have the ability to anticipate needs, identify gaps, and think beyond the checklist, making them invaluable partners to attorneys and clients
Curiosity also plays a powerful role in client relationships โ an area that often defines the client experience more than any document or deadline.
โSometimes clients donโt want to share personal details with us,โ Dean said. โThey may not trust us because of the image that can be associated with our profession. Approaching each situation with curiosity and finding ways to show clients, โWeโre on your side, weโve got your back,โ is huge.โ
For paralegals looking to level up in their career, this curiosity-driven empathy is a differentiator. Itโs what builds trust with clients and credibility with attorneys. Team leads can encourage this mindset to develop team members who not only execute tasks but also strengthen the firmโs reputation and relationships through every client interaction.
How Paralegals Navigate a Constantly Changing Environment
Evolution is constant in the legal field, driven by shifting client expectations and the rise of technology and AI. Dean admits that change management has been both her greatest challenge and her most valuable skill to develop.
โIf youโre someone who struggles to accept change, youโll need to learn how to roll with the punches and become super flexible,โ she said. โThe market is changing, technology is changing, and so are the expectations. Weโre not just here to gather injuries anymore โ thereโs so much more to it.โ
In her four years as a paralegal, sheโs seen the role evolve from data gathering to storytelling.
โWeโre putting together bits and pieces of a clientโs life and experience to help tell their story,โ Dean explained. โWe canโt just say, โHeโs at a pain level 8 for his back.โ We need to gather context, offer empathy, and create a connection. Not to mention, the utilization of AI and third-party tools has changed how we work completely.โ
Rather than resisting change, sheโs learned to embrace it โ but not without asking questions.
โItโs fine to question things, again โ curiosity is an asset,โ she said. โI encourage my team to ask, โWhy are we doing things this way?โ and try to gain an understanding. When you see the purpose behind the change, itโs easier to embrace and apply it.โ
Staying Organized: Boundaries, Focus, and Firm Impact
In a busy legal environment, staying organized can make a huge impact on day-to-day tasks for a paralegal. Itโs crucial to build systems and set boundaries that help you get things done efficiently, hit deadlines consistently, and stay on top of client needs.
Early in her career, Dean recognized the value of learning from others to build her own workflow systems.ย
โWhen we were doing training, I met with different people in our department and shadowed them to see how they navigate their day,โ she explained. โI took bits and pieces from everyone and made my own structure.โ
Deanโs approach highlights how being both adaptable and intentional in how you organize your work is an essential principle for high-performing paralegals. Itโs not enough to know what needs to be done; success depends on how tasks are prioritized, scheduled, and executed.ย
โIf you say, โFrom 8:00 to 9:00, this is what Iโm going to do,โ then commit to doing that,โ she advised. โPut your phone on Do Not Disturb, close your email, and be intentional. Setting boundaries and focusing on one thing at a time keeps you on track.โย
Paralegals who maintain structured workflows help attorneys manage caseloads more efficiently, reduce errors, and ultimately improve client satisfaction. Disciplined organization also creates the capacity to handle complex cases, respond to unexpected challenges, and demonstrate reliability. Firms that encourage and support these practices equip their legal teams to operate at a higher level, while paralegals who master these skills gain a competitive advantage in their careers.
The Power of Empathy in Paralegal Work
Central to Deanโs philosophy is the idea of truly caring for clients, a quality she calls โhaving the heart for it.โ
โWe are very much in a customer service industry,โ she said. โCaring and seeing the best in your clients, even when theyโre not having their best day, is everything.โ
Paralegals often interact with clients during some of the most challenging moments of their lives, as they deal with injuries, legal disputes, or complex claims. Yes, a good paralegal needs the technical skills to walk them through it, but they also need emotional intelligence, patience, and genuine compassion.
โOur clients are going through a really hard time, and they donโt always know how to navigate it,โ Dean explained. โYou have to be the navigator โ the one who takes their hand and walks them through it. You get to guide them through that sticky mud, and thatโs what makes this job so rewarding.โ
Empathy strengthens the overall workflow of a legal team. When paralegals can anticipate client concerns, respond thoughtfully, and manage expectations effectively, attorneys can focus on strategy and case outcomes with greater confidence. However, keeping your clientsโ cups full every day isnโt easy, especially when youโre new to the role.
โOnce you get your first couple of cases, you do feel drained,โ Dean admitted. โYouโre talking to people all day long, and I remember just getting home and sitting in the car in the driveway thinking, โI have no more words.โ Itโs important to take time to recharge and invest back in yourself.โย
Teams that cultivate empathy see higher client satisfaction and more positive case outcomes.
Building a Strong Paralegal-Attorney Partnership
A strong paralegal-attorney relationship is built on open communication and mutual accountability. For Dean, effective teamwork isnโt about hierarchy โ itโs about collaboration and shared responsibility for client outcomes.
โYouโve got to be able to communicate with your attorney,โ she said, โand not just communicate, but also hold each other accountable.โ
In many law firms, paralegals may hesitate to speak up, worried about overstepping or disrupting workflow. Dean emphasizes that cultivating mutual respect and understanding strengthens the relationship and drives better case results.ย
โThere can be this mindset of, โOh, well, thatโs the attorney โ I donโt want to step on their toes,โโ she said. โBut you can develop a relationship where you know what your attorney is going to want to do next. You work together as a team once you realize that youโre both working the case together, doing everything you can to get your client full value.โ
Developing this collaborative mindset positions paralegals as indispensable team members. Theyโre contributing to strategy, anticipating needs, and ensuring that the attorneyโs time and expertise are used most effectively.
Key Takeaways: Level Up in Your Paralegal Career
Deanโs insights remind us that great paralegals are communicators, problem-solvers, and client advocates who help law firms thrive. Their success depends on curiosity, adaptability, emotional intelligence, and a sense of humor that helps them weather the unpredictable nature of legal work.
If you’re looking to level up in your career, Dean encourages new paralegals to stay flexible in the face of change, lead with empathy and heart, communicate clearly and confidently, and stay curious โ about their clients, their work, and the โwhyโ behind every process.
โWeโre on this journey with our clients,โ says Dean. โOur job is to take their hand, walk them through it, and help tell their story.โ


